Sherman's Executive Communicator
Presentation and Negotiation Tips for Today's Leader
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Additional Dates Scheduled for Small Group Sessions - June 3, June 12 and July 24

We filled our May 28th Columbus small group session within one week after our April 1 announcement. So we have scheduled an additional program for June 12th in Columbus.

We are also considering programs on June 3 in Los Angeles and July 24 in Las Vegas. We can only hold the June 3 and July 24 programs if we have sufficient advanced registration. So . . . if you have any interest in joining me for a day long, intense, transformational experience in LA or Vegas, email me today for more information.

These sessions are designed for those of you who want to grow your business or organization and take your leadership and persuasion skills to a new level. The cost is $695 per person and is limited to seven
participants. The day long session includes a videotape critique.

A key benefit of the program is that the class participants form a type of "mastermind" group and brainstorm ways for you to improve your speaking skills. You will receive personal attention to your specific
needs. Ask any of the past graduates for a reference. Interested? Send me an email for complete details, which includes information on our cancellation policy if you register early.


Presentation & Negotiation Tips: How to Deal with a Hostile Audience

*Making an effective presentation is hard work. It's even more difficult when your audience is hostile to your message. Consider these examples:

*You are the last presenter on a Friday afternoon at a resort area and the attendees are required to be there after a week long training session. You are a trial lawyer addressing your local chamber ofcommerce about proposed legislation that is perceived by your audience as anti-business. Or you are the new chairperson of a hospital's medical department and you are schedule to speak with an older and well entrenched group of MD's about a new hospital initiative that is sure to meet with skepticism by the already jaded medical staff.

*You can even make the examples above more stressful for the presenter by adding gender, race and cultural issues to the mix. For instance, the new medical group chairperson may be a young female who is addressing a group of older males. Or the chairperson is a physician from India, speaking to a physician group of older white males. Gender, race and cultural differences can create another barrier to communication that the presenter must overcome.

*One of the biggest mistakes a presenter will make when developing a presentation to a potentially hostile group is to ignore the obvious. The hard reality is that it takes advanced planning to deal effectively with these types of situations. A presenter who chooses to ignore the obvious may still provide the audience with an adequate presentation. But if you view a hostile audience as an opportunity rather than a liability, you will choose a different path and deal directly with their issues.

*You develop a presentation to a hostile audience in the same way that you develop any presentation. You begin with an understanding that you must KNOW YOUR AUDIENCE. Knowing your audience members means UNDERSTANDING their frame of mind at the moment and how your message can address those needs.

*In the chamber of commerce example cited, the trial lawyer might begin his/her presentation with this "in your face" statement: "When you hear the phrase 'trial lawyer' what comes to mind?" If no one answers, the attorney might get things started by writing the word "greedy" on an
easel. Someone will only half jokingly yell out, "ridiculous law suits" or "our biggest problem." You get the idea.

*The trial attorney can then transition into . . . "As business people, I can understand exactly how you feel. When you read the paper about million dollar verdicts for hot coffee spills or other seemingly frivolous suits, you naturally think of us as the enemy. If I were in your shoes, I would be concerned that trial lawyers are raising the cost of doing business. But the fact of the matter is that many things that trial lawyers do actually decreases your costs of doing business. In
fact, the proposed legislation that I am hear to talk about today does precisely that." By empathizing with their concerns and directly addressing what the audience members are thinking, the trial lawyer is able to diffuse some of the hostility that may exist in the room.

*In our health care example, Dr. Leonard Randolph was the new physician executive with a medical clinic who had to inform an older group of experienced medical doctors about the latest quality initiative. He knew in advance that his presentation would be met with hostility from
his medical team. So he took a risk. He walked in the room wearing a catcher's chest protector, knee pads and catcher's glove and said, "I'm ready. Throw me whatever you've got." The medical doctors in attendance were shocked, amazed and then bent over in laughter. The hostility was diffused. Dialogue was now possible.

*What if the new physician executive addressing the medical team was from India and had a heavy accent? This could pose a further distraction to his message. In that case, the physician might begin with . . . "I've met many of you over the course of the last two weeks, but we didn't have time to get well acquainted. So I thought I would tell you a little about my background. Many of you might think that because of my accent that I am from . . . Kentucky . . . but no, that's not true. I was actually born in . . ."

*I encouraged one of my clients to use this line in a sales presentation before a conservative board of directors. After making this statement, the board members roared with laughter and any tension in the room was immediately diffused. It is amazing what a little self-deprecating humor can accomplish.

*And how do you handle the situation where you are the last speaker on a Friday afternoon at a resort AND the participants are required to attend? I was faced with this situation early in my career when I found myself addressing a group of attorneys who obviously did not want to be in the room. They wanted to be out on the golf course. So I took an enormous risk.

*I started with . . ."You don't want to be here, do you?" A resounding "NO" came from the group. I then said, "I understand. It's a beautiful day. You've been here all week. Ok, let's make a deal. I have 45 minutes to speak with you today. But I received permission from Bill [the meeting planner] to shorten my presentation to 15 minutes. If I speak for just 15 minutes and get you out on the golf course, will you listen to what I have to say?" A resounding "YES" came from the group. And then I began my talk.

*In those brief 15 minutes, I used a prop, encouraged them to interact, and perhaps influenced a few of the participants to take action based upon my message. Similar to Dr. Randolph when he addressed the medical staff, I viewed my presentation as an opportunity to influence and not as a liability.

*There is an important caveat that you must consider before taking a risk when planning your presentation to a potentially hostile audience. Don't assume that you know the attitude of your listeners. Ask them. Make a few calls and conduct several interviews. Confirm your suspicions before you "confront" the group. You may even want to talk to a decision-maker about what you are planning to do and say to assure that it will be well received.

*When you present before a potentially hostile audience, your presentation is essentially a form of negotiation. You are "negotiating" with your audience members to consider your information and (hopefully) act on your message.

*Presenting to a hostile audience also brings out the best in leaders. You can't fake it. It requires a meaningful connection. It also requires an ability to overcome "the barrier of hostility" and demonstrate a level of trustworthiness that persuades others to consider a different position . . . this is the essence of true leadership.


Listserv Recommendations

If you've attended one of my programs, your highest praise is to recommend me to your colleagues through your association Listserv. Let me know if you make a recommendation so I can thank you!


Selected April/May Upcoming Programs
[If you're in the area, let me know and maybe you can visit!]

May 4: Texas Society of CPAs [Leadership] - Dallas
May 14: Iowa Society of CPAs [Presentations] - Des Moines
May 21: Connecticut Bar Association [Negotiation/Presentations] - Hartford
May 28: Presentation Skills for Leaders - Columbus
June 4: CA Assoc. for Education of Young Children [Presentation Skills] - Los Angeles
June 15: Women's Professional Organization [Presentation Skills] - Columbus
June 15: Ohio Society of CPA's - [Presentation Skills] - Columbus
June 17: West Virginia Society of CPAs - [Leadership/Negotiation] - The Greenbrier
June 22: Jenkens & Gilchrist [Negotiations] - San Antonio


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Rob is author of Sherman's 21 Laws of Speaking:
How to Inspire Others to Action
Selected as Book of Month for February 2001 by InterNet Services Corp.

To contact Rob, write or email:
One Easton Oval, Suite 550, Columbus, Ohio, 43219.
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RobSherman@ShermanLeadership.com
 



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